Dec 22 2009

A wise wife builds; A foolish wife plucks down

Tag: Sage's Corner, Women: Reflecting the GlorySage @ 3:21 pm

Proverbs 14:1 [show/hide]Proverbs 14:1 [14:1]The wisest of women builds her house, but folly with her own hands tears it down.
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1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.

Note, 1. A good wife is a great blessing to a family. By a fruitful wife a family is multiplied and replenished with children, and so built up. But by a prudent wife, one that is pious, industrious, and considerate, the affairs of the family are made to prosper, debts are paid, portions raised, provision made, the children well educated and maintained, and the family has comfort within doors and credit without; thus is the house built. She looks upon it as her own to take care of, though she knows it is her husband’s to bear rule in, Esth. 1:22.

2. Many a family is brought to ruin by ill housewifery, as well as by ill husbandry. A foolish woman, that has no fear of God nor regard to her business, that is wilful, and wasteful, and humoursome, that indulges her ease and appetite, and is all for jaunting and feasting, cards and the play-house, though she come to a plentiful estate, and to a family beforehand, she will impoverish and waste it, and will as certainly be the ruin of her house as if she plucked it down with her hands; and the husband himself, with all his care, can scarcely prevent it.
- Matthew Henry Commentary

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Nov 30 2009

Love is Strong as Death

Tag: Women: Reflecting the GlorySage @ 7:00 pm

Song of Solomon 8:5-7 [show/hide]Song of Solomon 8:5-7 [5]Who is that coming up from the wilderness, leaning on her beloved? Under the apple tree I awakened you. There your mother was in labor with you; there she who bore you was in labor. [6]Set me as a seal upon your heart, as a seal upon your arm, for love is strong as death, jealousy is fierce as the grave. Its flashes are flashes of fire, the very flame of the LORD. [7]Many waters cannot quench love, neither can floods drown it. If a man offered for love all the wealth of his house, he would be utterly despised.
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5 Who is this that cometh up from the wilderness, leaning upon her beloved? I raised thee up under the apple tree: there thy mother brought thee forth: there she brought thee forth that bare thee. 6 Set me as a seal upon thine heart, as a seal upon thine arm: for love is strong as death; jealousy is cruel as the grave: the coals thereof are coals of fire, which hath a most vehement flame. 7 Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man would give all the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned.

Here, I. The spouse is much admired by those about her. It comes in in a parenthesis, but in it gospel-grace lies as plain, and as much above ground, as any where in this mystical song: Who is this that comes up from the wilderness, leaning upon her beloved? Some make these the words of the bridegroom, expressing himself well pleased with her reliance on him and resignation of herself to his guidance. They are rather the words of the daughters of Jerusalem, to whom she spoke (v. 4); they see her, and bless her. The angels in heaven, and all her friends on earth, are the joyful spectators of her bliss. The Jewish church came up from the wilderness supported by the divine power and favour, Deut. 32:10, 11 [show/hide]Deuteronomy 32:10 [10]"He found him in a desert land, and in the howling waste of the wilderness; he encircled him, he cared for him, he kept him as the apple of his eye.
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. The Christian church was raised up from a low and desolate condition by the grace of Christ relied on, Gal. 4:27 [show/hide]Galatians 4:27 [27]For it is written, "Rejoice, O barren one who does not bear; break forth and cry aloud, you who are not in labor! For the children of the desolate one will be more than those of the one who has a husband."
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. Particular believers are amiable, nay, admirable, and divine grace is to be admired in them, when by the power of that grace they are brought up from the wilderness, leaning with a holy confidence and complacency upon Jesus Christ their beloved. This bespeaks the beauty of a soul, and the wonders of divine grace,

1. In the conversion of sinners. A sinful state is a wilderness, remote from communion with God, barren and dry, and in which there is no true comfort; it is a wandering wanting state. Out of this wilderness we are concerned to come up, by true repentance, in the strength of the grace of Christ, supported by our beloved and carried in his arms.

2. In the consolation of saints. A soul convinced of sin, and truly humbled for it, is in a wilderness, quite at a loss; and there is no coming out of this wilderness but leaning on Christ as our beloved, by faith, and not leaning to our own understanding, nor trusting to any righteousness or strength of our own as sufficient for us, but going forth, and going on, in the strength of the Lord God, and making mention of his righteousness, even his only, who is the Lord our righteousness.

3. In the salvation of those that belong to Christ. We must go up from the wilderness of this world having our conversation in heaven; and, at death, we must remove thither, leaning upon Christ, must live and die by faith in him. To me to live is Christ, and it is he that is gain in death.

II. She addresses herself to her beloved.

1. She puts him in mind of the former experience which she and others had had of comfort and success in applying to him.

(1.) For her own part: “I raised thee up under the apple tree, that is, I have many a time wrestled with thee by prayer and have prevailed. When I was alone in the acts of devotion, retired in the orchard, under the apple-tree” (which Christ himself was compared to, ch. 2:3), as Nathanael under the fig-tree (John 1:48 [show/hide]John 1:48 [48]Nathanael said to him, "How do you know me?" Jesus answered him, "Before Philip called you, when you were under the fig tree, I saw you." (ESV)
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, “meditating and praying, then I raised thee up, to help me and comfort me,” as the disciples raised him up in the storm, saying, Master, carest thou not that we perish? (Mark 4:38 [show/hide]Mark 4:38 [38]But he was in the stern, asleep on the cushion. And they woke him and said to him, "Teacher, do you not care that we are perishing?" (ESV)
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, and the church (Ps. 44:23 [show/hide]Psalm 44:23 [23]Awake! Why are you sleeping, O Lord? Rouse yourself! Do not reject us forever!
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), Awake, why sleepest thou? Note, The experience we have had of Christ’s readiness to yield to the importunities of our faith and prayer should encourage us to continue instant in our addresses to him, to strive more earnestly, and not to faint. I sought the Lord, and he heard me, Ps. 34:4 [show/hide]Psalm 34:4 [4]I sought the LORD, and he answered me and delivered me from all my fears.
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(2.) Others also had like experience of comfort in Christ, as it follows there (Ps. 34:5 [show/hide]Psalm 34:5 [5]Those who look to him are radiant, and their faces shall never be ashamed.
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), They looked unto him, as well as I, and were lightened. There thy mother brought thee forth, the universal church, or believing souls, in whom Christ was formed, Gal. 4:15 [show/hide]Galatians 4:15 [15]What then has become of the blessing you felt? For I testify to you that, if possible, you would have gouged out your eyes and given them to me. (ESV)
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. They were in pain for the comfort of an interest in thee, and travailed in pain with great sorrow (so the word here signifies); but they brought thee forth; the pangs did not continue always; those that had travailed in convictions at last brought forth in consolations, and the pain was forgotten for joy of the Saviour’s birth. By this very similitude our Saviour illustrates the joy which his disciples would have in his return to them, after a mournful separation for a time, John 16:21, 22 [show/hide]John 16:21 [21]When a woman is giving birth, she has sorrow because her hour has come, but when she has delivered the baby, she no longer remembers the anguish, for joy that a human being has been born into the world. (ESV)
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. After the bitter pangs of repentance many a one has had the blessed birth of comfort; why then may not I?

2. She begs of him that her union with him might be confirmed, and her communion with him continued and made more intimate (v. 6): Set me as a seal upon thy heart, as a seal upon thy arm.

(1.) “Let me have a place in thy heart, an interest in thy love.” This is that which all those desire above any thing that know how much their happiness is bound up in the love of Christ.

(2.) “Let me never lose the room I have in thy heart; let thy love to me be ensured, as that deed which is sealed up not to be robbed. Let nothing ever prevail either to separate me from thy love, or, by suspending the communications of it, to deprive me of the comfortable sense of it.”

(3.) “Let me be always near and dear to thee, as the signet on thy right hand, not to be parted with (Jer. xxii. 24), engraven upon the palms of thy hands (Isa. 49:14 [show/hide]Isaiah 49:14 [14]But Zion said, "The LORD has forsaken me; my Lord has forgotten me."
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), be loved with a peculiar love.”

(4.) “Be thou my high priest; let my name be written on thy breast-plate, nearer thy heart, as the names of all the tribes were engraven like the engravings of a signet in twelve precious stones on the breast-plate of Aaron, and also on two precious stones on the two shoulders or arms of the ephod,” Exod. 28:11, 12, 21.

(5.) “Let thy power be engaged for me, as an evidence of thy love to me; let me be not only a seal upon thy heart, but a seal upon thy arm; let me be ever borne up in thy arms, and know it to my comfort.” Some make these to be the words of Christ to his spouse, commanding her to be ever mindful of him and of his love to her; however, if we desire and expect that Christ should set us as a seal on his heart, surely we cannot do less than set him as a seal on ours.

3. To enforce this petition, she pleads the power of love, of her love to him, which constrained her to be thus pressing for the tokens of his love to her.

(1.) Love is a violent vigorous passion.

[1.] It is strong as death. The pains of a disappointed lover are like the pains of death; nay, the pains of death are slighted, and made nothing of, in pursuit of the beloved object. Christ’s love to us was strong as death, for it broke through death itself. He loved us, and gave himself for us. The love of true believers to Christ is strong as death, for it makes them dead to every thing else; it even parts between soul and body, while the soul, upon the wings of devout affections, soars upward to heaven, and even forgets that it is yet clothed and clogged with flesh. Paul, in a rapture of this love, knew not whether he was in the body or out of the body. By it a believer is crucified to the world.

[2.] Jealousy is cruel as the grave, which swallows up and devours all; those that truly love Christ are jealous of every thing that would draw them from him, and especially jealous of themselves, lest they should do any thing to provoke him to withdraw from them, and, rather than do so, would pluck out a right eye and cut off a right hand, than which what can be more cruel? Weak and trembling saints, who conceive a jealousy of Christ, doubting of his love to them, find that jealousy to prey upon them like the grave; nothing wastes the spirits more; but it is an evidence of the strength of their love to him.

(3.) The coals thereof, its lamps, and flames, and beams, are very strong, and burn with incredible force, as the coals of fire that have a most vehement flame, a flame of the Lord (so some read it), a powerful piercing flame, as the lightning, Ps. 29:7 [show/hide]Psalm 29:7 [7]The voice of the LORD flashes forth flames of fire.
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. Holy love is a fire that begets a vehement heat in the soul, and consumes the dross and chaff that are in it, melts it down like wax into a new form, and carries it upwards as the sparks towards God and heaven.

(2.) Love is a valiant victorious passion. Holy love is so; the reigning love of God in the soul is constant and firm, and will not be drawn off from him either by fair means or foul, by life or death, Rom. viii. 38.

[1.] Death, and all its terrors, will not frighten a believer from loving Christ: Many waters, though they will quench fire, cannot quench this love, no, nor the floods drown it, v. 7. The noise of these waters will strike no terror upon it; let them do their worst, Christ shall still be the best beloved. The overflowing of these waters will strike no damp upon it, but it will enable a man to rejoice in tribulation. Though he slay me, I will love him and trust in him. No waters could quench Christ’s love to us, nor any floods drown it; he waded through the greatest difficulties, even seas of blood. Love sat king upon the floods; let nothing then abate our love to him.

[2.] Life, and all its comforts, will not entice a believer from loving Christ: If a man could hire him with all the substance of his house, to take his love off from Christ and set it upon the world and the flesh again, he would reject the proposal with the utmost disdain; as Christ, when the kingdoms of this world and the glory of them were offered him, to buy him off from his undertaking, said, Get thee hence, Satan. It would utterly be contemned. Offer those things to those that know no better. Love will enable us to repel and triumph over temptations from the smiles of the world, as much as from its frowns. Some give this sense of it: If a man would give all the substance of his house to Christ, as an equivalent instead of love, to excuse it, it would be contemned. He seeks not ours, but us, the heart, not the wealth. If I give all my goods to feed the poor, and have not love, it is nothing, 1 Cor. 13:1 [show/hide]1 Corinthians 13:1 The Way of Love [13:1]If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. (ESV)
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. Thus believers stand affected to Christ: the gifts of his providence cannot satisfy them without the assurances of his love.
- Matthew Henry Commentary

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Jul 22 2009

Women in the Bible

Tag: Women: Reflecting the GlorySage @ 9:22 am

From Koinonia House

WOMEN IN THE BIBLE

The Apostle Paul has gotten a lot of flak over the years for his statement that women should be silent in the churches. He’s also had plenty of women irritated at him for saying they should submit to their husbands. Yet, while the Bible has been accused of promoting ancient patriarchal social structures or even downright misogyny, the Bible actually promotes women and provides excellent examples of women who were honored.

The Bible was written, just like all books, in a male-dominated society. Yet, even in a time before the 19th Amendment and Title IX, the Bible does a great deal to promote the cause of women. Women are treated with respect in its pages, and not as scapegoats or the property of men as in certain other religions. Even though Eve is credited with taking the first bite of that fruit, she’s not faulted with the fall of humanity; Adam is (1 Cor 15:21-22 [show/hide]1 Corinthians 15:21-22 [21]For as by a man came death, by a man has come also the resurrection of the dead. [22]For as in Adam all die, so also in Christ shall all be made alive. (ESV)
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).   It’s important for us to look at the treatment of women throughout the Bible.

Old Testament:
In Exodus 35:25-26 [show/hide]Exodus 35:25-26 [25]And every skillful woman spun with her hands, and they all brought what they had spun in blue and purple and scarlet yarns and fine twined linen. [26]All the women whose hearts stirred them to use their skill spun the goats' hair. (ESV)
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, women took part in providing for the tabernacle, the holy tent where God would speak face to face with Moses. These “wise hearted” women used their creativity and skill for the glory of God by spinning beautiful blue, purple, scarlet and linen cloths. Apparently, their hearts were spiritually stirred up to do the work along with the men.

Two books of the Bible, Ruth and Esther, are devoted to the excellent women whose names those books bear. Ruth became the great-grandmother of King David, and therefore the ancestor of Jesus himself, and Esther’s courage saved the lives of all the Hebrew people living in the kingdoms ruled by Babylon.

Deborah was a strong woman and a prophetess who judged Israel: “And she dwelt under the palm tree of Deborah between Ramah and Bethel in mount Ephraim: and the children of Israel came up to her for judgment.”Judges 4:5 [show/hide]Judges 4:5 [5]She used to sit under the palm of Deborah between Ramah and Bethel in the hill country of Ephraim, and the people of Israel came up to her for judgment. (ESV)
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In 2 Kings 22:14-20 [show/hide]2 Kings 22:14-20 [14]So Hilkiah the priest, and Ahikam, and Achbor, and Shaphan, and Asaiah went to Huldah the prophetess, the wife of Shallum the son of Tikvah, son of Harhas, keeper of the wardrobe (now she lived in Jerusalem in the Second Quarter), and they talked with her. [15]And she said to them, "Thus says the LORD, the God of Israel: 'Tell the man who sent you to me, [16]Thus says the LORD, Behold, I will bring disaster upon this place and upon its inhabitants, all the words of the book that the king of Judah has read. [17]Because they have forsaken me and have made offerings to other gods, that they might provoke me to anger with all the work of their hands, therefore my wrath will be kindled against this place, and it will not be quenched. [18]But to the king of Judah, who sent you to inquire of the LORD, thus shall you say to him, Thus says the LORD, the God of Israel: Regarding the words that you have heard, [19]because your heart was penitent, and you humbled yourself before the LORD, when you heard how I spoke against this place and against its inhabitants, that they should become a desolation and a curse, and you have torn your clothes and wept before me, I also have heard you, declares the LORD. [20]Therefore, behold, I will gather you to your fathers, and you shall be gathered to your grave in peace, and your eyes shall not see all the disaster that I will bring upon this place.'" And they brought back word to the king. (ESV)
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, Hilkiah the priest, Ahikam, Achbor, Shaphan, Asahiah all went to Huldah the prophetess to receive instruction from the LORD.

Job, one of the most esteemed men who ever lived, gave his daughters an inheritance with their brothers. Job 42:15 [show/hide]Job 42:15 [15]And in all the land there were no women so beautiful as Job's daughters. And their father gave them an inheritance among their brothers. (ESV)
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God often has compassion for women in the Old Testament, like Hannah (1 Sam 1:2-20 [show/hide]1 Samuel 1:2-20 [2]He had two wives. The name of the one was Hannah, and the name of the other, Peninnah. And Peninnah had children, but Hannah had no children. [3]Now this man used to go up year by year from his city to worship and to sacrifice to the LORD of hosts at Shiloh, where the two sons of Eli, Hophni and Phinehas, were priests of the LORD. [4]On the day when Elkanah sacrificed, he would give portions to Peninnah his wife and to all her sons and daughters. [5]But to Hannah he gave a double portion, because he loved her, though the LORD had closed her womb. [6]And her rival used to provoke her grievously to irritate her, because the LORD had closed her womb. [7]So it went on year by year. As often as she went up to the house of the LORD, she used to provoke her. Therefore Hannah wept and would not eat. [8]And Elkanah, her husband, said to her, "Hannah, why do you weep? And why do you not eat? And why is your heart sad? Am I not more to you than ten sons?" [9]After they had eaten and drunk in Shiloh, Hannah rose. Now Eli the priest was sitting on the seat beside the doorpost of the temple of the LORD. [10]She was deeply distressed and prayed to the LORD and wept bitterly. [11]And she vowed a vow and said, "O LORD of hosts, if you will indeed look on the affliction of your servant and remember me and not forget your servant, but will give to your servant a son, then I will give him to the LORD all the days of his life, and no razor shall touch his head." [12]As she continued praying before the LORD, Eli observed her mouth. [13]Hannah was speaking in her heart; only her lips moved, and her voice was not heard. Therefore Eli took her to be a drunken woman. [14]And Eli said to her, "How long will you go on being drunk? Put your wine away from you." [15]But Hannah answered, "No, my lord, I am a woman troubled in spirit. I have drunk neither wine nor strong drink, but I have been pouring out my soul before the LORD. [16]Do not regard your servant as a worthless woman, for all along I have been speaking out of my great anxiety and vexation." [17]Then Eli answered, "Go in peace, and the God of Israel grant your petition that you have made to him." [18]And she said, "Let your servant find favor in your eyes." Then the woman went her way and ate, and her face was no longer sad. [19]They rose early in the morning and worshiped before the LORD; then they went back to their house at Ramah. And Elkanah knew Hannah his wife, and the LORD remembered her. [20]And in due time Hannah conceived and bore a son, and she called his name Samuel, for she said, "I have asked for him from the LORD." (ESV)
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), Leah (Gen 29:31 [show/hide]Genesis 29:31 Jacob's Children [31]When the LORD saw that Leah was hated, he opened her womb, but Rachel was barren. (ESV)
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), and the two women in 2 Kings 4 [show/hide]2 Kings 4 Elisha and the Widow's Oil [4:1]Now the wife of one of the sons of the prophets cried to Elisha, "Your servant my husband is dead, and you know that your servant feared the LORD, but the creditor has come to take my two children to be his slaves." [2]And Elisha said to her, "What shall I do for you? Tell me; what have you in the house?" And she said, "Your servant has nothing in the house except a jar of oil." [3]Then he said, "Go outside, borrow vessels from all your neighbors, empty vessels and not too few. [4]Then go in and shut the door behind yourself and your sons and pour into all these vessels. And when one is full, set it aside." [5]So she went from him and shut the door behind herself and her sons. And as she poured they brought the vessels to her. [6]When the vessels were full, she said to her son, "Bring me another vessel." And he said to her, "There is not another." Then the oil stopped flowing. [7]She came and told the man of God, and he said, "Go, sell the oil and pay your debts, and you and your sons can live on the rest." Elisha and the Shunammite Woman [8]One day Elisha went on to Shunem, where a wealthy woman lived, who urged him to eat some food. So whenever he passed that way, he would turn in there to eat food. [9]And she said to her husband, "Behold now, I know that this is a holy man of God who is continually passing our way. [10]Let us make a small room on the roof with walls and put there for him a bed, a table, a chair, and a lamp, so that whenever he comes to us, he can go in there." [11]One day he came there, and he turned into the chamber and rested there. [12]And he said to Gehazi his servant, "Call this Shunammite." When he had called her, she stood before him. [13]And he said to him, "Say now to her, 'See, you have taken all this trouble for us; what is to be done for you? Would you have a word spoken on your behalf to the king or to the commander of the army?'" She answered, "I dwell among my own people." [14]And he said, "What then is to be done for her?" Gehazi answered, "Well, she has no son, and her husband is old." [15]He said, "Call her." And when he had called her, she stood in the doorway. [16]And he said, "At this season, about this time next year, you shall embrace a son." And she said, "No, my lord, O man of God; do not lie to your servant." [17]But the woman conceived, and she bore a son about that time the following spring, as Elisha had said to her. Elisha Raises the Shunammite's Son [18]When the child had grown, he went out one day to his father among the reapers. [19]And he said to his father, "Oh, my head, my head!" The father said to his servant, "Carry him to his mother." [20]And when he had lifted him and brought him to his mother, the child sat on her lap till noon, and then he died. [21]And she went up and laid him on the bed of the man of God and shut the door behind him and went out. [22]Then she called to her husband and said, "Send me one of the servants and one of the donkeys, that I may quickly go to the man of God and come back again." [23]And he said, "Why will you go to him today? It is neither new moon nor Sabbath." She said, "All is well." [24]Then she saddled the donkey, and she said to her servant, "Urge the animal on; do not slacken the pace for me unless I tell you." [25]So she set out and came to the man of God at Mount Carmel. When the man of God saw her coming, he said to Gehazi his servant, "Look, there is the Shunammite. [26]Run at once to meet her and say to her, 'Is all well with you? Is all well with your husband? Is all well with the child?'" And she answered, "All is well." [27]And when she came to the mountain to the man of God, she caught hold of his feet. And Gehazi came to push her away. But the man of God said, "Leave her alone, for she is in bitter distress, and the LORD has hidden it from me and has not told me." [28]Then she said, "Did I ask my lord for a son? Did I not say, 'Do not deceive me?'" [29]He said to Gehazi, "Tie up your garment and take my staff in your hand and go. If you meet anyone, do not greet him, and if anyone greets you, do not reply. And lay my staff on the face of the child." [30]Then the mother of the child said, "As the LORD lives and as you yourself live, I will not leave you." So he arose and followed her. [31]Gehazi went on ahead and laid the staff on the face of the child, but there was no sound or sign of life. Therefore he returned to meet him and told him, "The child has not awakened." [32]When Elisha came into the house, he saw the child lying dead on his bed. [33]So he went in and shut the door behind the two of them and prayed to the LORD. [34]Then he went up and lay on the child, putting his mouth on his mouth, his eyes on his eyes, and his hands on his hands. And as he stretched himself upon him, the flesh of the child became warm. [35]Then he got up again and walked once back and forth in the house, and went up and stretched himself upon him. The child sneezed seven times, and the child opened his eyes. [36]Then he summoned Gehazi and said, "Call this Shunammite." So he called her. And when she came to him, he said, "Pick up your son." [37]She came and fell at his feet, bowing to the ground. Then she picked up her son and went out. Elisha Purifies the Deadly Stew [38]And Elisha came again to Gilgal when there was a famine in the land. And as the sons of the prophets were sitting before him, he said to his servant, "Set on the large pot, and boil stew for the sons of the prophets." [39]One of them went out into the field to gather herbs, and found a wild vine and gathered from it his lap full of wild gourds, and came and cut them up into the pot of stew, not knowing what they were. [40]And they poured out some for the men to eat. But while they were eating of the stew, they cried out, "O man of God, there is death in the pot!" And they could not eat it. [41]He said, "Then bring flour." And he threw it into the pot and said, "Pour some out for the men, that they may eat." And there was no harm in the pot. [42]A man came from Baal-shalishah, bringing the man of God bread of the firstfruits, twenty loaves of barley and fresh ears of grain in his sack. And Elisha said, "Give to the men, that they may eat." [43]But his servant said, "How can I set this before a hundred men?" So he repeated, "Give them to the men, that they may eat, for thus says the LORD, 'They shall eat and have some left.'" [44]So he set it before them. And they ate and had some left, according to the word of the LORD. (ESV)
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Solomon’s statements about women can sometimes be considered humorous. He speaks both of foolish women and of wise women, of ladies wicked and virtuous. He had his share of wives, though, some of whom he apparently wished he could escape, as seen in statements like:

“It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house.” - Proverbs 21:9 [show/hide]Proverbs 21:9 [9]It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.
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“It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.” - Proverbs 21:19 [show/hide]Proverbs 21:19 [19]It is better to live in a desert land than with a quarrelsome and fretful woman.
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“A continual dropping in a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike.” - Proverbs 27:15 [show/hide]Proverbs 27:15 [15]A continual dripping on a rainy day and a quarrelsome wife are alike;
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As much as we can enjoy some light-hearted humor at Solomon’s expense, his words demonstrate something important; his wives certainly felt free to speak their minds.

And while many women resent her for her perfection, the last chapter of Proverbs is dedicated to describing an especially amazing woman.

New Testament:
Women are treated with great importance in the New Testament.  Jesus’ decent treatment of women, from prostitutes to foreigners, bordered on scandalous. The Gospels tell of many occasions in which Jesus healed women, even one considered ”unclean” according to the Law (Mark 5:25-34 [show/hide]Mark 5:25-34 [25]And there was a woman who had had a discharge of blood for twelve years, [26]and who had suffered much under many physicians, and had spent all that she had, and was no better but rather grew worse. [27]She had heard the reports about Jesus and came up behind him in the crowd and touched his garment. [28]For she said, "If I touch even his garments, I will be made well." [29]And immediately the flow of blood dried up, and she felt in her body that she was healed of her disease. [30]And Jesus, perceiving in himself that power had gone out from him, immediately turned about in the crowd and said, "Who touched my garments?" [31]And his disciples said to him, "You see the crowd pressing around you, and yet you say, 'Who touched me?'" [32]And he looked around to see who had done it. [33]But the woman, knowing what had happened to her, came in fear and trembling and fell down before him and told him the whole truth. [34]And he said to her, "Daughter, your faith has made you well; go in peace, and be healed of your disease." (ESV)
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; Lev 15:25 [show/hide]Leviticus 15:25 [25]"If a woman has a discharge of blood for many days, not at the time of her menstrual impurity, or if she has a discharge beyond the time of her impurity, all the days of the discharge she shall continue in uncleanness. As in the days of her impurity, she shall be unclean. (ESV)
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).   Jesus spoke one-on-one with the Samaritan woman at the well (John 4 [show/hide]John 4 Jesus and the Woman of Samaria [4:1]Now when Jesus learned that the Pharisees had heard that Jesus was making and baptizing more disciples than John [2](although Jesus himself did not baptize, but only his disciples), [3]he left Judea and departed again for Galilee. [4]And he had to pass through Samaria. [5]So he came to a town of Samaria called Sychar, near the field that Jacob had given to his son Joseph. [6]Jacob's well was there; so Jesus, wearied as he was from his journey, was sitting beside the well. It was about the sixth hour. [7]A woman from Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, "Give me a drink." [8](For his disciples had gone away into the city to buy food.) [9]The Samaritan woman said to him, "How is it that you, a Jew, ask for a drink from me, a woman of Samaria?" (For Jews have no dealings with Samaritans.) [10]Jesus answered her, "If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, 'Give me a drink,' you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water." [11]The woman said to him, "Sir, you have nothing to draw water with, and the well is deep. Where do you get that living water? [12]Are you greater than our father Jacob? He gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did his sons and his livestock." [13]Jesus said to her, "Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, [14]but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life." [15]The woman said to him, "Sir, give me this water, so that I will not be thirsty or have to come here to draw water." [16]Jesus said to her, "Go, call your husband, and come here." [17]The woman answered him, "I have no husband." Jesus said to her, "You are right in saying, 'I have no husband'; [18]for you have had five husbands, and the one you now have is not your husband. What you have said is true." [19]The woman said to him, "Sir, I perceive that you are a prophet. [20]Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you say that in Jerusalem is the place where people ought to worship." [21]Jesus said to her, "Woman, believe me, the hour is coming when neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem will you worship the Father. [22]You worship what you do not know; we worship what we know, for salvation is from the Jews. [23]But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him. [24]God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth." [25]The woman said to him, "I know that Messiah is coming (he who is called Christ). When he comes, he will tell us all things." [26]Jesus said to her, "I who speak to you am he." [27]Just then his disciples came back. They marveled that he was talking with a woman, but no one said, "What do you seek?" or, "Why are you talking with her?" [28]So the woman left her water jar and went away into town and said to the people, [29]"Come, see a man who told me all that I ever did. Can this be the Christ?" [30]They went out of the town and were coming to him. [31]Meanwhile the disciples were urging him, saying, "Rabbi, eat." [32]But he said to them, "I have food to eat that you do not know about." [33]So the disciples said to one another, "Has anyone brought him something to eat?" [34]Jesus said to them, "My food is to do the will of him who sent me and to accomplish his work. [35]Do you not say, 'There are yet four months, then comes the harvest'? Look, I tell you, lift up your eyes, and see that the fields are white for harvest. [36]Already the one who reaps is receiving wages and gathering fruit for eternal life, so that sower and reaper may rejoice together. [37]For here the saying holds true, 'One sows and another reaps.' [38]I sent you to reap that for which you did not labor. Others have labored, and you have entered into their labor." [39]Many Samaritans from that town believed in him because of the woman's testimony, "He told me all that I ever did." [40]So when the Samaritans came to him, they asked him to stay with them, and he stayed there two days. [41]And many more believed because of his word. [42]They said to the woman, "It is no longer because of what you said that we believe, for we have heard for ourselves, and we know that this is indeed the Savior of the world." [43]After the two days he departed for Galilee. [44](For Jesus himself had testified that a prophet has no honor in his own hometown.) [45]So when he came to Galilee, the Galileans welcomed him, having seen all that he had done in Jerusalem at the feast. For they too had gone to the feast. Jesus Heals an Official's Son [46]So he came again to Cana in Galilee, where he had made the water wine. And at Capernaum there was an official whose son was ill. [47]When this man heard that Jesus had come from Judea to Galilee, he went to him and asked him to come down and heal his son, for he was at the point of death. [48]So Jesus said to him, "Unless you see signs and wonders you will not believe." [49]The official said to him, "Sir, come down before my child dies." [50]Jesus said to him, "Go; your son will live." The man believed the word that Jesus spoke to him and went on his way. [51]As he was going down, his servants met him and told him that his son was recovering. [52]So he asked them the hour when he began to get better, and they said to him, "Yesterday at the seventh hour the fever left him." [53]The father knew that was the hour when Jesus had said to him, "Your son will live." And he himself believed, and all his household. [54]This was now the second sign that Jesus did when he had come from Judea to Galilee. (ESV)
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), and on several occasions he came to the defense of women (John 8:3-11 [show/hide]John 8:3-11 [3]The scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in adultery, and placing her in the midst [4]they said to him, "Teacher, this woman has been caught in the act of adultery. [5]Now in the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. So what do you say?" [6]This they said to test him, that they might have some charge to bring against him. Jesus bent down and wrote with his finger on the ground. [7]And as they continued to ask him, he stood up and said to them, "Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her." [8]And once more he bent down and wrote on the ground. [9]But when they heard it, they went away one by one, beginning with the older ones, and Jesus was left alone with the woman standing before him. [10]Jesus stood up and said to her, "Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?" [11]She said, "No one, Lord." And Jesus said, "Neither do I condemn you; go, and from now on sin no more."]] (ESV)
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,Luke 7:37-50 [show/hide]Luke 7:37-50 [37]And behold, a woman of the city, who was a sinner, when she learned that he was reclining at table in the Pharisee's house, brought an alabaster flask of ointment, [38]and standing behind him at his feet, weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears and wiped them with the hair of her head and kissed his feet and anointed them with the ointment. [39]Now when the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself, "If this man were a prophet, he would have known who and what sort of woman this is who is touching him, for she is a sinner." [40]And Jesus answering said to him, "Simon, I have something to say to you." And he answered, "Say it, Teacher." [41]"A certain moneylender had two debtors. One owed five hundred denarii, and the other fifty. [42]When they could not pay, he cancelled the debt of both. Now which of them will love him more?" [43]Simon answered, "The one, I suppose, for whom he cancelled the larger debt." And he said to him, "You have judged rightly." [44]Then turning toward the woman he said to Simon, "Do you see this woman? I entered your house; you gave me no water for my feet, but she has wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. [45]You gave me no kiss, but from the time I came in she has not ceased to kiss my feet. [46]You did not anoint my head with oil, but she has anointed my feet with ointment. [47]Therefore I tell you, her sins, which are many, are forgiven--for she loved much. But he who is forgiven little, loves little." [48]And he said to her, "Your sins are forgiven." [49]Then those who were at table with him began to say among themselves, "Who is this, who even forgives sins?" [50]And he said to the woman, "Your faith has saved you; go in peace." (ESV)
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). Women loved him and a group of them followed him (Mark 15:40-41 [show/hide]Mark 15:40-41 [40]There were also women looking on from a distance, among whom were Mary Magdalene, and Mary the mother of James the younger and of Joses, and Salome. [41]When he was in Galilee, they followed him and ministered to him, and there were also many other women who came up with him to Jerusalem. (ESV)
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), and some of his most encouraging words were spoken to women (John 11:23-26, 38-40 [show/hide]John 11:23-26 [23]Jesus said to her, "Your brother will rise again." [24]Martha said to him, "I know that he will rise again in the resurrection on the last day." [25]Jesus said to her, "I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live, [26]and everyone who lives and believes in me shall never die. Do you believe this?" (ESV)
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).  Mary was welcomed to sit at Jesus’ feet (Luke 10:39-42 [show/hide]Luke 10:39-42 [39]And she had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord's feet and listened to his teaching. [40]But Martha was distracted with much serving. And she went up to him and said, "Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me." [41]But the Lord answered her, "Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, [42]but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her." (ESV)
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), taking the posture of a disciple.  Women were the first to learn of his resurrection (Luke 23:55-24 [show/hide]Luke 23:55-24:53 [55]The women who had come with him from Galilee followed and saw the tomb and how his body was laid. [56]Then they returned and prepared spices and ointments. On the Sabbath they rested according to the commandment. The Resurrection [24:1]But on the first day of the week, at early dawn, they went to the tomb, taking the spices they had prepared. [2]And they found the stone rolled away from the tomb, [3]but when they went in they did not find the body of the Lord Jesus. [4]While they were perplexed about this, behold, two men stood by them in dazzling apparel. [5]And as they were frightened and bowed their faces to the ground, the men said to them, "Why do you seek the living among the dead? [6]He is not here, but has risen. Remember how he told you, while he was still in Galilee, [7]that the Son of Man must be delivered into the hands of sinful men and be crucified and on the third day rise." [8]And they remembered his words, [9]and returning from the tomb they told all these things to the eleven and to all the rest. [10]Now it was Mary Magdalene and Joanna and Mary the mother of James and the other women with them who told these things to the apostles, [11]but these words seemed to them an idle tale, and they did not believe them. [12]But Peter rose and ran to the tomb; stooping and looking in, he saw the linen cloths by themselves; and he went home marveling at what had happened. On the Road to Emmaus [13]That very day two of them were going to a village named Emmaus, about seven miles from Jerusalem, [14]and they were talking with each other about all these things that had happened. [15]While they were talking and discussing together, Jesus himself drew near and went with them. [16]But their eyes were kept from recognizing him. [17]And he said to them, "What is this conversation that you are holding with each other as you walk?" And they stood still, looking sad. [18]Then one of them, named Cleopas, answered him, "Are you the only visitor to Jerusalem who does not know the things that have happened there in these days?" [19]And he said to them, "What things?" And they said to him, "Concerning Jesus of Nazareth, a man who was a prophet mighty in deed and word before God and all the people, [20]and how our chief priests and rulers delivered him up to be condemned to death, and crucified him. [21]But we had hoped that he was the one to redeem Israel. Yes, and besides all this, it is now the third day since these things happened. [22]Moreover, some women of our company amazed us. They were at the tomb early in the morning, [23]and when they did not find his body, they came back saying that they had even seen a vision of angels, who said that he was alive. [24]Some of those who were with us went to the tomb and found it just as the women had said, but him they did not see." [25]And he said to them, "O foolish ones, and slow of heart to believe all that the prophets have spoken! [26]Was it not necessary that the Christ should suffer these things and enter into his glory?" [27]And beginning with Moses and all the Prophets, he interpreted to them in all the Scriptures the things concerning himself. [28]So they drew near to the village to which they were going. He acted as if he were going farther, [29]but they urged him strongly, saying, "Stay with us, for it is toward evening and the day is now far spent." So he went in to stay with them. [30]When he was at table with them, he took the bread and blessed and broke it and gave it to them. [31]And their eyes were opened, and they recognized him. And he vanished from their sight. [32]They said to each other, "Did not our hearts burn within us while he talked to us on the road, while he opened to us the Scriptures?" [33]And they rose that same hour and returned to Jerusalem. And they found the eleven and those who were with them gathered together, [34]saying, "The Lord has risen indeed, and has appeared to Simon!" [35]Then they told what had happened on the road, and how he was known to them in the breaking of the bread. Jesus Appears to His Disciples [36]As they were talking about these things, Jesus himself stood among them, and said to them, "Peace to you!" [37]But they were startled and frightened and thought they saw a spirit. [38]And he said to them, "Why are you troubled, and why do doubts arise in your hearts? [39]See my hands and my feet, that it is I myself. Touch me, and see. For a spirit does not have flesh and bones as you see that I have." [40]And when he had said this, he showed them his hands and his feet. [41]And while they still disbelieved for joy and were marveling, he said to them, "Have you anything here to eat?" [42]They gave him a piece of broiled fish, [43]and he took it and ate before them. [44]Then he said to them, "These are my words that I spoke to you while I was still with you, that everything written about me in the Law of Moses and the Prophets and the Psalms must be fulfilled." [45]Then he opened their minds to understand the Scriptures, [46]and said to them, "Thus it is written, that the Christ should suffer and on the third day rise from the dead, [47]and that repentance and forgiveness of sins should be proclaimed in his name to all nations, beginning from Jerusalem. [48]You are witnesses of these things. [49]And behold, I am sending the promise of my Father upon you. But stay in the city until you are clothed with power from on high." The Ascension [50]Then he led them out as far as Bethany, and lifting up his hands he blessed them. [51]While he blessed them, he parted from them and was carried up into heaven. [52]And they worshiped him and returned to Jerusalem with great joy, [53]and were continually in the temple blessing God. (ESV)
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:10), and Mary Magdalene was apparently the first person he appeared to after he rose (John 20:14-17 [show/hide]John 20:14-17 [14]Having said this, she turned around and saw Jesus standing, but she did not know that it was Jesus. [15]Jesus said to her, "Woman, why are you weeping? Whom are you seeking?" Supposing him to be the gardener, she said to him, "Sir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have laid him, and I will take him away." [16]Jesus said to her, "Mary." She turned and said to him in Aramaic, "Rabboni!" (which means Teacher). [17]Jesus said to her, "Do not cling to me, for I have not yet ascended to the Father; but go to my brothers and say to them, 'I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.'" (ESV)
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).

Paul is not such a criminal as many women might think. Paul gives one of the most excellent, beautiful descriptions of how a man should treat his wife that can be found anywhere, ancient world or present:

“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it… So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.” -Ephesians 5:25, 28-31 [show/hide]Ephesians 5:25 [25]Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, (ESV)
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Paul tells men to lay down their lives for their wives, to cherish them, and to love them as they love their own bodies. If all husbands behaved that way toward their wives, women would have no problem respecting their husbands.

Paul gladly accepts the ministry of women on several occasions. Paul, Luke and Silas found a safe house in the home of a certain businesswoman in Thyatira named Lydia (Acts 16:14-15, 40 [show/hide]Acts 16:14-15 [14]One who heard us was a woman named Lydia, from the city of Thyatira, a seller of purple goods, who was a worshiper of God. The Lord opened her heart to pay attention to what was said by Paul. [15]And after she was baptized, and her household as well, she urged us, saying, "If you have judged me to be faithful to the Lord, come to my house and stay." And she prevailed upon us. (ESV)
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).  Paul
worked with several women in the ministry, like Priscilla (Rom 16:3 [show/hide]Romans 16:3 [3]Greet Prisca and Aquila, my fellow workers in Christ Jesus, (ESV)
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), and he speaks with great warmth and appreciation of Phoebe (Rom 16:1-2 [show/hide]Romans 16:1-2 Personal Greetings [16:1]I commend to you our sister Phoebe, a servant of the church at Cenchreae, [2]that you may welcome her in the Lord in a way worthy of the saints, and help her in whatever she may need from you, for she has been a patron of many and of myself as well. (ESV)
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), telling the Romans to “assist her in whatsoever business she hath need of you.”

And about women keeping silent in churches? In the context of 1 Corinthians 14 [show/hide]1 Corinthians 14 Prophecy and Tongues [14:1]Pursue love, and earnestly desire the spiritual gifts, especially that you may prophesy. [2]For one who speaks in a tongue speaks not to men but to God; for no one understands him, but he utters mysteries in the Spirit. [3]On the other hand, the one who prophesies speaks to people for their upbuilding and encouragement and consolation. [4]The one who speaks in a tongue builds up himself, but the one who prophesies builds up the church. [5]Now I want you all to speak in tongues, but even more to prophesy. The one who prophesies is greater than the one who speaks in tongues, unless someone interprets, so that the church may be built up. [6]Now, brothers, if I come to you speaking in tongues, how will I benefit you unless I bring you some revelation or knowledge or prophecy or teaching? [7]If even lifeless instruments, such as the flute or the harp, do not give distinct notes, how will anyone know what is played? [8]And if the bugle gives an indistinct sound, who will get ready for battle? [9]So with yourselves, if with your tongue you utter speech that is not intelligible, how will anyone know what is said? For you will be speaking into the air. [10]There are doubtless many different languages in the world, and none is without meaning, [11]but if I do not know the meaning of the language, I will be a foreigner to the speaker and the speaker a foreigner to me. [12]So with yourselves, since you are eager for manifestations of the Spirit, strive to excel in building up the church. [13]Therefore, one who speaks in a tongue should pray for the power to interpret. [14]For if I pray in a tongue, my spirit prays but my mind is unfruitful. [15]What am I to do? I will pray with my spirit, but I will pray with my mind also; I will sing praise with my spirit, but I will sing with my mind also. [16]Otherwise, if you give thanks with your spirit, how can anyone in the position of an outsider say "Amen" to your thanksgiving when he does not know what you are saying? [17]For you may be giving thanks well enough, but the other person is not being built up. [18]I thank God that I speak in tongues more than all of you. [19]Nevertheless, in church I would rather speak five words with my mind in order to instruct others, than ten thousand words in a tongue. [20]Brothers, do not be children in your thinking. Be infants in evil, but in your thinking be mature. [21]In the Law it is written, "By people of strange tongues and by the lips of foreigners will I speak to this people, and even then they will not listen to me, says the Lord." [22]Thus tongues are a sign not for believers but for unbelievers, while prophecy is a sign not for unbelievers but for believers. [23]If, therefore, the whole church comes together and all speak in tongues, and outsiders or unbelievers enter, will they not say that you are out of your minds? [24]But if all prophesy, and an unbeliever or outsider enters, he is convicted by all, he is called to account by all, [25]the secrets of his heart are disclosed, and so, falling on his face, he will worship God and declare that God is really among you. Orderly Worship [26]What then, brothers? When you come together, each one has a hymn, a lesson, a revelation, a tongue, or an interpretation. Let all things be done for building up. [27]If any speak in a tongue, let there be only two or at most three, and each in turn, and let someone interpret. [28]But if there is no one to interpret, let each of them keep silent in church and speak to himself and to God. [29]Let two or three prophets speak, and let the others weigh what is said. [30]If a revelation is made to another sitting there, let the first be silent. [31]For you can all prophesy one by one, so that all may learn and all be encouraged, [32]and the spirits of prophets are subject to prophets. [33]For God is not a God of confusion but of peace. As in all the churches of the saints, [34]the women should keep silent in the churches. For they are not permitted to speak, but should be in submission, as the Law also says. [35]If there is anything they desire to learn, let them ask their husbands at home. For it is shameful for a woman to speak in church. [36]Or was it from you that the word of God came? Or are you the only ones it has reached? [37]If anyone thinks that he is a prophet, or spiritual, he should acknowledge that the things I am writing to you are a command of the Lord. [38]If anyone does not recognize this, he is not recognized. [39]So, my brothers, earnestly desire to prophesy, and do not forbid speaking in tongues. [40]But all things should be done decently and in order. (ESV)
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, Paul is talking about maintaining order during church gatherings. It’s notable that just 3 chapters prior, in 1 Cor 11:5 [show/hide]1 Corinthians 11:5 [5]but every wife who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head, since it is the same as if her head were shaven. (ESV)
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, Paul made it clear that women do prophesy. When were they supposed to prophesy then, if not in church gatherings? There have been several female prophets in the Bible, and they spoke to groups that also included men. Anna the prophetess is a notable example (Luke 2:37-38 [show/hide]Luke 2:37-38 [37]and then as a widow until she was eighty-four. She did not depart from the temple, worshiping with fasting and prayer night and day. [38]And coming up at that very hour she began to give thanks to God and to speak of him to all who were waiting for the redemption of Jerusalem. (ESV)
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). It’s obvious from the context that Paul’s purpose was not to subjugate women, but to keep order when the people came together. Some have suggested that women, who were not necessarily literate, had been making a lot of noise during gatherings by asking their husbands questions.  It was causing disruption, just as people prophesying all at once caused disruption. Paul finishes the whole section by saying, “Let all things be done decently and in order.”

Ultimately, Paul says, “There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus.” -Galatians 3:28 [show/hide]Galatians 3:28 [28]There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. (ESV)
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Nov 10 2008

Ruth 3:1; “My daughter, Shall I not Seek Rest for Thee?”; A Married state is, or should be, a state of rest to young people. Wandering affections are then fixed, and the heart must be at rest; It is at rest in the house of a husband, and in his heart; Those are giddy indeed that marriage does not compose.

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SHALL I NOT SEEK REST FOR THEE? B.C. 1312

Ruth 3:1 [show/hide]Ruth 3:1 Ruth and Boaz at the Threshing Floor [3:1]Then Naomi her mother-in-law said to her, "My daughter, should I not seek rest for you, that it may be well with you? (ESV)
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1 Then Naomi her mother in law said unto her, My daughter, shall I not seek rest for thee, that it may be well with thee?
Here is, I. Naomi’s care for her daughter’s comfort is without doubt very commendable, and is recorded for imitation. She had no thoughts of marrying herself, ch. i. 12. But, though she that was old had resolved upon a perpetual widowhood, yet she was far from the thoughts of confining her daughter-in-law to it, that was young. Age must not make itself a standard to youth. On the contrary, she is full of contrivance how to get her well married. Her wisdom projected that for her daughter which her daughter’s modesty forbade her to project for herself, v. 1. This she did

1. In justice to the dead, to raise up seed to those that were gone, and so to preserve the family from being extinct.

2. In kindness and gratitude to her daughter-in-law, who had conducted herself very dutifully and respectfully to her. “My daughter” (said she, looking upon her in all respects as her own), “shall I not seek rest for thee,” that is, a settlement in the married state; “shall I not get thee a good husband, that it may be well with thee,” that is, “that thou mayest live plentifully and pleasantly, and not spend all thy days in the mean and melancholy condition we now live in?” Note,

(1.) A married state is, or should be, a state of rest to young people. Wandering affections are then fixed, and the heart must be at rest. It is at rest in the house of a husband, and in his heart, ch. i. 9. Those are giddy indeed that marriage does not compose.

(2.) That which should be desired and designed by those that enter into the married state is that it may be well with them, in order to which it is necessary that they choose well; otherwise, instead of being a rest to them, it may prove the greatest uneasiness. Parents, in disposing of their children, must have this in their eye, that it may be well with them. And be it always remembered that is best for us which is best for our souls.

(3.) It is the duty of parents to seek this rest for their children, and to do all that is fit for them to do, in due time, in order to it. And the more dutiful and respectful they are to them, though they can the worse spare them, yet they should the rather prefer them, and the better.
- Matthew Henry Commentary

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Oct 31 2008

Rejoice Not O My Enemy! The Spirit of Glory Rests Upon Me!

Tag: Women: Reflecting the GlorySage @ 9:36 am

Micah 7:8 [show/hide]Micah 7:8 [8]Rejoice not over me, O my enemy; when I fall, I shall rise; when I sit in darkness, the LORD will be a light to me.
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Rejoice not against me, O my enemy; when I fall, I shall arise, when I sit in darkness, the Lord shall be a light to me.

Our enemies derive a great deal of sadistic satisfaction from our misfortune, which does inevitably add to our sorrow and discomfort.

Nevertheless, the prophet makes himself very clear on this subject; we bear the indignation of the Lord if we have sinned against Him, until He pleads our cause and executes judgment for us.

We cannot ascertain the precise actions and thoughts of God given a situation and should consider that we may be in a “Job” position; whichever it may be, we are in His Hand and should
Trust that His judgment will ultimately bring clarity.

We should not say or do anything rashly, which courts disaster, but stay at home and quietly wait with hope for deliverance from the God of our salvation, He will hear us.

For the son dishonors the father, the daughter rises up against her mother, the daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law; a man’s enemies can be the men of his own house.

Trust not in a neighbor, put not confidence in a friend; keep the doors of your mouth – let God be your confidante – rely and trust in Him alone, for He never fails or betrays you.

When your enemy sees your deliverance, shame will cover them who said to you; “Where is the Lord your God?”

The intrigues which surround family and friends can be diverse and perplexing, and it can be difficult to fathom the motivation that drives them;

Therefore, show tolerance towards them and with patience pray for each one, as a wise man overlooks an offence and even as Stephen did whilst they were stoning him to death, “Father, forgive them they know not what they are doing”.

Vindication comes from God, and they will see that God honors and loves you, which is more important than reacting to the stones which they throw. Leave them be, FOR THE SPIRIT OF GLORY RESTS UPON YOU.

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Oct 31 2008

Inner Beauty: Men, Women, Children

Tag: Women: Reflecting the GlorySage @ 8:27 am

1 Samuel 16:7 [show/hide]1 Samuel 16:7 [7]But the LORD said to Samuel, "Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the LORD sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the LORD looks on the heart." (ESV)
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But the Lord said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature: because I have refused him: for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh upon the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart. [Dake].

Sadly, gross errors of judgment are made by My servants and handmaidens, in that the outward appearances are availed upon as the true criterion whereby the evaluation of others are based.

As history reveals, even My prophet Samuel, who was an experienced and godly man, looked upon the outward appearance, impressed visibly by the stature of man, in preference to the Divine Direction; doing My work, My way, one step at a time.

Thus according to the standard of man, a comely “anointed” would be chosen, as man looks on the outside: but, I look upon the heart and know the intents and thoughts of man in choosing after My Own heart, and not from outer appearances.

I select deliberately, from the farm fields, the offices, the factories, the highways and by-ways, among the despised of men, the outcast, the foolish, the housewife and those that the world will reject as My anointed, and look upon with incredulous disbelief.

Thus I chose you because it pleased Me; your heart attitude always contemplative and in close communion with Me, prepared for the power and grace of the Spirit necessary to be entrusted to you.

I singled you out and separated you from the midst of your brethren, and anointed you with My Spirit coming upon you from that day with a divine power inwardly advancing you in wisdom, courage, concern and compassion for My people.

Even though you do not have the outward appearance that is according to the standard of the world; true beauty is from within, for I judge your heart and your mind and not your stature, height or countenance.

I have refused and rejected many “Saul’s” through disobedience, and yet My people still follow after and even mourn for them, after they have evidenced My rejection of them.

So too, the “Saul’s” cling to their “crowns” and thrones firmly, even though their kingly powers have ceased; well aware that I have chosen Me another, one after My Own Heart.

Lost then, are the good qualities and designated kingly authority from them, leaving an empty shell, filled with fretfulness, suspicion and discontent and ‘unkingly’ actions against My “David’s”, pursuing them, prepared to take their lives, and imposing a sentence which condemns them to flight and living in caves; in fear of their very lives.

Though you be in a cave situation as an anointed king with no crown, no throne or Kingdom, with and evil-intentioned “Saul” and his armies pursuing you and vexing your soul: take courage, and trust in Me implicitly, secure in the knowledge that I will hide you in the secret of My Presence and initiate events in your favor.

Even though “Saul” is seated upon your throne, wearing your crown and reigning over your Kingdom, you, as My chosen, are the rightful king.

Therefore, you will not remain concealed in the cave; but in due time I will exalt you to inherit your legal crown of glory and eternal splendor.

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Oct 31 2008

5 Points in Judging the Fornicator

Tag: Women: Reflecting the GlorySage @ 7:59 am

1 Corinthians 5:4-5 [show/hide]1 Corinthians 5:4-5 [4]When you are assembled in the name of the Lord Jesus and my spirit is present, with the power of our Lord Jesus, [5]you are to deliver this man to Satan for the destruction of the flesh, so that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord. (ESV)
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In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, when ye are gathered together, and my spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus Christ,
To deliver such an one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that the spirit my be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.

1. By the authority of Jesus Christ.
2. Gather in Church conference.
3. Agree with my spirit.
4. Use the power of Jesus Christ.
5. Deliver him to Satan [v4-5].

The purpose of delivering him to Satan was to destroy the flesh. This required members to withdraw all fellowship and spiritual influence from him, and to quit praying for him, so as to permit Satan to afflict his body thus perhaps bringing him to repentance, that his spirit might be saved in the end.

This was effective, for in the second letter Paul wrote the church to forgive him lest he should be swallowed up in overmuch sorrow [2 Cor. 2:6-7 [show/hide]2 Corinthians 2:6-7 [6]For such a one, this punishment by the majority is enough, [7]so you should rather turn to forgive and comfort him, or he may be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. (ESV)
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].

Greek, ‘olethros,’ ruin, destruction, plague, pest [v 5; 1 Th. 5:3 [show/hide]1 Thessalonians 5:3 [3]While people are saying, "There is peace and security," then sudden destruction will come upon them as labor pains come upon a pregnant woman, and they will not escape. (ESV)
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; 2 Th. 1:9 [show/hide]2 Thessalonians 1:9 [9]They will suffer the punishment of eternal destruction, away from the presence of the Lord and from the glory of his might, (ESV)
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; 1 Tim. 6:9 [show/hide]1 Timothy 6:9 [9]But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation, into a snare, into many senseless and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. (ESV)
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]. This destruction did not kill the man. Whatever it was it was capable of bringing him to repentance [2 Cor. 2:7 [show/hide]2 Corinthians 2:7 [7]so you should rather turn to forgive and comfort him, or he may be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. (ESV)
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].

All the physical affliction that could be brought on a man could not save his spirit unless it brought him to repentance. It was not, therefore, physical trouble which saved the soul, but repentance brought about by affliction.
- Dake Annotated Reference Bible: page 179

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Oct 31 2008

Women: Abigail; A Pattern of Right Behaviour in an Unfortunate Marriage

Tag: Women: Reflecting the GlorySage @ 7:52 am

1 Samuel 25:30-31 [show/hide]1 Samuel 25:30-31 [30]And when the LORD has done to my lord according to all the good that he has spoken concerning you and has appointed you prince over Israel, [31]my lord shall have no cause of grief or pangs of conscience for having shed blood without cause or for my lord taking vengeance himself. And when the LORD has dealt well with my lord, then remember your servant." (ESV)
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And when the Lord has done to my lord according to all the good that He has promised concerning you, and has made you ruler over Israel,
This shall be no staggering grief to you, or cause for pangs of conscience to my lord, either that you have shed blood without cause, or that my lord has avenged himself. And when my lord has dealt well with my lord, then [earnestly] remember your handmaid. [Amplified Bible]

Whenever God’s inspired Word says “[earnestly] remember,” one is certain to miss something if he does not stop, look, and really listen to what the Holy Spirit is wanting to tell him – or her.

“[Earnestly] remember Abigail, the woman whom God has specifically held up as a pattern of right behavior in an unfortunate marriage.

Here are a dozen vital questions answered through Abigail’s example. She could not have known that thousands of years later people in similar circumstances would become “more than conquerors” because of her, but God knew.

Study her until you know her God-given secrets of success: then pass them on to the people who are letting an unfortunate marriage wreck them, rather than sanctify them for service.

In Through the Bible Day by Day, F.B. Meyer said, “Never let the evil disposition of one mate hinder the devotion and grace of the other. Never let the difficulties of your home lead you to abdicate your throne.

DO NOT STEP DOWN TO THE LEVEL OF YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES, BUT LIFT THEM TO YOUR OWN HIGH CALLING IN CHRIST. [Be not conformed…. Be transformed. Romans 12:1-2 [show/hide]Romans 12:1-2 A Living Sacrifice [12:1]I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. [2]Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. (ESV)
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].
- The Amplified Bible – page 354

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Oct 31 2008

Women more bitter than death: Sinners taken by her

Tag: Women: Reflecting the GlorySage @ 7:46 am

Ecclesiastes 8:26 [show/hide]ERROR: No passage found for your query.
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And I found that [of all sinful follies, none has been so ruinous in seducing one from God as idolatrous women] more bitter than death is the woman whose heart is snares and nets and whose hands are bands. Whoever pleases God shall escape from her, but the sinner shall be taken by her. [Amplified Bible]

This is a text that men and women should reflect upon, and after careful introspection and consideration weigh your future actions thereupon.

5 Different versions thereof should be sufficient to persuade you to run for your very life if you encounter such a one on the path of your life.

JERUSALEM BIBLE:
Once again I was at pains to study wisdom and retribution, to see wickedness as folly and foolishness as madness. I find woman more bitter than death; she is a snare, her heart a net, her arms are chains;
HE WHO IS PLEASING TO GOD eludes her, but the sinner is her captive.

KING JAMES:
And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands; whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her.

NEW INTERNATIONAL:
I find more bitter than death the woman who is a snare, whose heart is a trap and whose hands are chains. The man who pleases God will escape her.

LIVING BIBLE:
A prostitute is more bitter than death. May it please God that you escape from her, but sinners don’t evade her snares.

REVISED STANDARD:
And I found more bitter than death the woman whose heart is snares and nets, and whose hands are fetters; he who pleases God escapes her, but the sinner is taken by her.

If you have been in the unfortunate position of either the captured man or the ensnaring woman in the aforementioned verses, it must be evident that you are displeasing to God, or perhaps you have never known Him in a personal capacity?

Nevertheless, you can be set free from either of these positions by repentance and will no longer find it necessary to be chained and fettered to your past by your actions of old.
Your sins ought not to drive you away from God, but to Him, for it is His express desire to set you free from your past and renew a right relationship with Him; with a clean slate, and your sins cast into the ocean of forgiveness.

His compassion is new every morning, it fails not; now is the time to seek Him whilst He may be found, to call upon Him whilst He is near…… for who knows the brevity of your life-span ?

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Oct 27 2008

Marriage: 20 Commands Concerning Marriage

Tag: Women: Reflecting the GlorySage @ 8:14 am

1 Corinthians 7:10 [show/hide]1 Corinthians 7:10 [10]To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband (ESV)
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And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband.

1. Let every man have his own wife.
2. Let every woman have her own husband.
3. Let the husband meet the sexual needs of the wife [v 3-4]
4. Let the wife meet the sexual needs of her husband [v 3-4]
5. Defraud not each other in sexual matters – pay your conjugal vows [v 5]
6. Come together again after you have consented to live continent for a period so as to pray and fast [v 5].
7. Let both men and women marry if they have battles of self-control [v 9]
8. Let not the wife depart from her husband [v 10]
9. If she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband [v 11]
10. Let not the husband divorce his wife [v 11]
11. Let not the Christian man divorce the non-Christian if she be pleased to dwell with him: reasons [v 12-16].
12. Let not the Christian wife divorce her husband if he be pleased to dwell with her [v 13-16].
13. If the unbeliever departs and refuses to live with the Christian, let him depart. Do not force continuance of the marriage. The Christian is freed from the marriage bonds in such cases [v 15]
14. Let every man or woman remain as he or she was when each became a Christian [v 17-24]. That is, do not use Christianity as an excuse to break up your own home and perhaps another, seeking a new companion.
15. If you are bound to a wife, seek not to be loosed [v 27]. That is, do not get a divorce, regardless of the past. Stay in the same calling and state in which you were saved [v 17-24].
16. If you are loosed from a wife, seek not another wife [v 27]. If you do marry, however, you have not sinned [v 28].
17. You that have wives, live as though you did not have them [v 29-31]. That is, live free from anxiety [v 32-35].
18. Let the father who has a daughter of marriageable age be free to give her in marriage. It is no sin for him to do so or for the virgin to marry [v 36-38].
19. The wife is bound by law to be married as long as the husband lives [v 39]. Marriage is for the lifetime of the husband or wife.
20. Christians must remarry only Christians when companions die [v 39].
- Dake Annotated Reference Bible: page 191.

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